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2018 Reunion

Salt Lake Plaza Hotel at Temple Square

(801) 521-0130 or (800) 366-3684

Save the dates September 30 – October 5, 2018 to join other members of the Sheldon Family Association for our “research oriented” reunion at the Plaza Hotel and the Family History Library in Salt Lake City.

SFA Members, Prospective Members and Friends

Are you thinking about joining us for the fun, fellowship, and great research opportunities at the Sheldon Family Association Reunion 2018 in Salt Lake City from September 30 – October 5? If so, it is not too early to book your room at the Plaza Hotel at our special Sheldon association price. According to the response to our surveys sent to members, interest is high so a good attendance is expected.

2018 Reunion

The reunion will be in Salt Lake City Utah

Salt Lake Plaza Hotel at Temple Square

(801) 521-0130 or (800) 366-3684

Save the dates September 30 – October 5, 2018 to join other members of the Sheldon Family Association for our “research oriented” reunion at the Plaza Hotel and the Family History Library in Salt Lake City.

Spelling challenge when names include a prepositions in a surname

Last night a general question was presented to the board by one of it’s members which I took the liberty to answer.  I’ve been asked to write a short article on the subject for our website and, perhaps, the Quarterly.  The question was a simple enough one but one that many genealogists have struggled with.  It is in regard to the consistency of spelling in family surnames and how to record the many spelling anomalies in our research.  Specifically, in this question, was the use of prepositions in surnames and the proper way to use them.  The question was as follows:

“I am cleaning up my family tree and one of the things I’m trying to do is be consistent with the spelling of names.  I have a lot of DuBois names in my tree.  Some are spelled du Bois, others Du Bois, some are duBois and others are DuBois.  I also have families that begin with “de” and “von”.  Does anyone know if there is a ‘rule’ about spelling these names?  They sort differently if there is a space between them and end up with duplicates.”
This is an excellent question.  In the end this will come down to personal preference but I’ll attempt to give some information to help each us decide which approach we would like to take individually.
In the past it was a very common practice to use the most common spelling of a surname found within documentation for a particular individual.  Notations would be added to include additional spellings.  Many still use this approach which has been popular for two primary reasons.  First, it can be argued that the practice can help future researchers find the original source documentation.  Of course, this shouldn’t be a problem if the tree is properly sourced already.  The second reason is the visual nostalgia that it offers.  It is really wonderful to see the evolution of a name as it changes and forms through time.  The name Sheldon, as an example, can be seen even today as Sheldon, Shelden and Shelton fairly commonly.  More ancient spellings vary a great deal more.  If we go back just a few hundred years to 1679 we find “John Shelldin”, known to us as John 13 or John of South Kingston, listed among petitions to King Charles to provide aide to the residents of Narragansett Island. Go back further and we find in the recent research of cousin Kelly Wheaton, for our upcoming research trip to England in October, a “Geoffrey de Shlidone” in Devon in 1332 and, even earlier, we find the name Scelhadun in Derby in 1086.
It is the extremely wide range of these spellings that lead to a new point, which will lead to a more logical modern practice.  It should be remembered that spelling was not entirely important to our ancestors, if they could spell at all.  The English language didn’t have a set spelling of its lexicon until 1755 when Samuel Johnson wrote his Dictionary of the English Language.  France was a bit earlier with their publication of the Dictionnaire de l’Académie française” in 1687.  German, on the other hand, was an extremely late bloomer in comparison.  Prussian, only one of many Germanic Kingdom’s, didn’t receive its first spelling reform until 1901, based on a dictionary by Konrad Duden in 1880.  Even later, Portugal didn’t standardize until 1911 and Brazil (or Brasil) didn’t follow suit until 1938.
The point here, after a too lengthy description, is that spelling was simply not important to our ancestors – so we should feel no obligation to stick to any one spelling over another.  This is a happy revelation considering a modern dilemma.  With our new use of large databases it is important that we use a standard spelling.  As was mentioned in the question above, even the slightest change in spelling can cause havoc with our indexing.  For this purpose it is recommended to pick a single spelling to use through your tree with detailed notations of alternate spellings accompanied by proper source citations.  With names like Sheldon it is not to difficult to pick a common practice spelling – even though we do have some stubborn factions of the family that insist on “Shelden” haha.  (Only with love.)
Now let’s get back to the point of prepositions in the original question.  Only a few were mentioned, du, de and von.  Others include di, da, le, les, la, las, verch, ap, and many others with various combinations.  These words are not the names themselves and, therefore, are historically written in lower case.   For instance, Leonardo da Vinci did not actually have a surname but was born in the town of Vinci.  During his life he was also known as Leonardo di ser Piero da Vinci (son to Piero of Vinci).  It has only been in recent generations that we have started to capitalize these prepositions.  How you decide to use these will ultimately be a matter of personal preference.  For me, I prefer to write these names as they were originally intended.  Our questions specifically asked about the name “du Bois/duBois/DuBois/Du Bois”.  The word “du” in French is a contraction of “de le” which means “of the”.  The word Bois means wood.  Not the material, but a small forested area or copse.  So the earliest ancestors of this family where described as being “of the wood”, perhaps having a home further into the forest than others who lived in the village.  As we’re using a preposition, I would personally write the name as “du Bois”.
 
I could go on and on with this subject by going into detail on various prepositions, such as the very specific use of “von” in Germanic names, or the unique surname traditions of Welsh, Scandinavia, Russia and Latin American families.  Perhaps I can go into those in future articles.  In the mean time, I hope this has been some help.

2017 Reunion – Aurora Ohio

The 78th Annual SFA Reunion Recap
Michelle Masson
Aurora, Ohio is a most beautiful city! We had such an enjoyable visit spending time there for our annual
reunion this year. After the planning year, which didn’t take all year, just a few hours of many days, I was
well ready to actually begin the reunion. I had visited the Aurora Inn and Event center previously to check
on the rooms and location and facilities, which were all five star, so I knew what to expect! I was able to
attend all four days this year which was such a delightful experience. I grew up about an hour away from
Aurora, and my family is still local. I was able to bring with me each day a friend or relative as a guest. My
Mom came with me on Sunday and she was such a great help! She really enjoyed the experience and was
quite upset when she could not attend the next day. My best friend from elementary school, Angie, came
with me on Monday, she had a great time, as well, and she enjoyed the posters of all the different findings
through the years of the Sheldons around the world and their relations. I was amazed, as this was the first
time I had seen all the posters. Angie had such a great time that she signed up for Ancestry online and
began the search for her family tree! My Dad and two of my cousins came with me on Tuesday, all day, and
my cousin, Margaret, became a member of SFA! She had such a great time at the reunion that she decided
she would like to be a part of the Association. I must say that bringing guests with me each day was a great
success!
Monday was a scheduled meet and greets, enjoy the area, and relax day. We didn’t have any scheduled
activity for the day, aside from genealogy look-ups, which Frank Sheldon was doing throughout the whole
of the reunion. Whenever anyone needed any information he was right on his computer to help them find
what it was they were searching. Angie and I enjoyed the pool and the food! We also had a great time
checking in and meeting many of my cousins. Whether the cousins are first, second or ninth, they are still
family and so much fun to meet! The food at the Aurora Inn Hotel and Event Center is absolutely
spectacular! It is farm to table, which is a grand benefit, but the chef has a way with preparation that just
enhances the freshness and great flavor.
Tuesday was the BIG day! We began in the AM with two delightful short talks from Ruth Watson and Gwen
Sheldon. We proceeded to our open Board meeting which went very nicely. Around 11:30 we boarded a
tour bus, which was provided for our use by the city of Aurora. This came complete with a driver, Sam
Colmery, who was very good at his job, and our tour guide: Mr. John Kudley Jr. the president of the Aurora
Historical Society. Mr. Kudley helped me all year on various questions and situations, and he helped to
orchestrate this whole reunion for us. A major Thank You to Mr. John Kudley!
Our first stop was The Atrium in Aurora. It is an assisted living
facility that is top notch. It is very beautifully decorated. We
were treated by the city of Aurora to a very delicious lunch
and a visit with Mayor Ann Womer Benjamin. We were also
able to visit with some of the members of the Aurora
Historical Society (AHS) during our lunch. Mayor Womer
Benjamin welcomed us to The Atrium and Aurora, and then
each of us took a minute to introduce ourselves. We had the
privilege of the accompaniment of Clara Gutermuth, the
eldest living SFA member.
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The next stop was the Aurora Historical Society Museum
and across the street from that the Ebenezer Sheldon
Deed House! The museum is so very nice. It has many
artifacts from the area acquired from many people.
There is a special section that takes up a good space in
the center with all the information regarding Ebenezer
Sheldon as the first settler of Aurora, and his family and
others who came during those first years. John Kudley
gave us a full tour of the museum, answering all our
questions and sharing with us some really interesting
stories.
Upon entering the Deed House we tried to see just how
many Sheldons we could fit inside at once! John Kudley
told us about the many folks who had donated materials
to help refurbish the office of Ebenezer Sheldon. It was
amazing to me to hear of the interest and assistance given
by so many. The results are beautiful. It was here that we
presented the plaque to John, the AHS and the city of
Aurora. They did a real nice job depicting what Ebenezer’s
desk would have looked like in 1805, and after, when he
was signing plots of the land in and around Aurora to
various new settlers. It was a memorable experience to
visit this rejuvenated office of our ancestor.
The next stop on our tour was The First Church of Aurora which was built beginning in 1822, and dedicated
in 1824. Many years and many hands worked together in order to build the first brick church building in
Aurora. Ebenezer and his wife Lovee (Laura) were the first family of Aurora to have a travelling preacher
2: AHS Photo, used with permission
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speak in their home. This was their church. It has changed in many ways since then, but it was really neat
to sit on the pews just as they would have done. 1
This information was taken from a book written by John
Kudley, Jr. I, of course, had to have a copy, and I had to have it signed by the author. We also visited the
Aurora Cemetery, where Ebenezer and his family, and many other first families of Aurora are laid to rest.
There is a wealth of information to be gleaned from the headstones and placement of them in a cemetery.
The tour took us down the road, Pioneer Trail, a ways to the original
location of the Deed House on the Sheldon Family home site, which is
now known as Spring Hill Farm. This Sheldon home was built in 1851 by
Ebenezer’s grandson, Albert Russell Sheldon. There is a photo of the
home in its originality on page 17 of the book Aurora: from the founding
to the flood by Carol G. Bowman.2
It is still standing but in need of great
repair. This is a beautiful century home on a grand piece of land,
overlooking the Chagrin River. It is now owned, with the help of the
conservation society, by the city of Aurora and the AHS. According to
the AHS website it is still undecided what is going to happen with this
stately home. Walking around the home was quite interesting; my
favorite part was the two horse head topped poles placed along the
drive way, maybe used for tying up the horses. Visiting this site gave a
feeling of days gone by, many years ago.
We had a dinner reservation at the 1815 Tavern in Aurora. This restaurant is located in the heart of Aurora,
right next door to a building, home and store, built by Ebenezer Sheldon II prior to 1840.3
The food was
absolutely fantastic! We were all seated in one room together, with plenty of time to socialize. It was a
very good meal and very good company, too!
The bus took us all back to the Inn and we enjoyed a presentation on the history of Aurora by John Kudley.
See, I told you earlier that he did so much for this reunion! His presentation was interesting, as he adds
quaint tidbits of information that are so very fun to hear.
On Wednesday, we had two options of activities, one being a visit to the Aurora Farms Outlet Mall, where I
enjoyed spending quite a bit of cash in the Malley’s Chocolate store. They are a local Cleveland, Ohio
chocolate manufacturer which I have had the pleasure of enjoying for many years! The other option was to
visit the Liberty Park which had hiking trails and an indoor museum. I am
told it was a very nice visit there as well.
After shopping I had a few minutes to locate the old “Chet Edwards”
store across the street from the Inn. The original building was built by
Ebenezer Sheldon II around 1838, or 1840, and he lived there with his
family and used the building as a store. Sheldon sold the building later,
and now it was vacant when I arrived, but peeking in the windows
showed some really neat woodwork on the inside.1
I’m told that a
furniture store will be moving in there soon. Once again it was really
interesting to see a house built by an ancestor of the Sheldon’s, and to
walk around the outside of the building and almost feel the existence of
kin!
We wanted to get back to the Inn by 3:00pm for another short talk. This one presented by Albert Sheldon
on Sheldons of Western NY, many of which are not in our database. This calls for some more research!
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We had a small crowd, so the progenitor lineage tables meetings
were short and small, but still sweet. Those of us in the John from
Kingstown line talked about creating some poster boards for our
ancestor. I was really impressed by the story boards; much work
goes into the research and presentation of those, not to mention the
transporting of them. The first thing one sees upon entering our
grand room is those displays, and they draw one’s attention to each
one and there is so much to learn there. I was amazed!
The business meeting was full of business and it went very well. We
were able to Skype with those members who were unable to meet
with us in person this year. The annual picture, of course you can
see, was a great hit. We did it in one shot! The owner of the Inn
asked if he would be able to keep a photo of us all at the reunion, as
it was interesting to have the family there for our visit.
We did have enough time for a little cocktail hour before our banquet dinner at the Inn. Prior to dining
Mayor Ann Womer Benjamin greeted us with a very nice story about the work the city did for the Deed
House. The dinner was absolutely fabulous! The food was so delicious, the preparation was very well done,
and the service was delightful. The Aurora Inn strives to prepare farm to table foods, and the flavors show.
After our dinner Mr. Kudley presented another talk regarding the Ebenezer Sheldon family in Aurora. He
mentioned that he felt like an honorary Sheldon after all the research and work he has done for the family
and after the warm welcome from all of us during this reunion. He is working on his next book, the story of
Ebenezer Sheldon’s history in Aurora. I asked him for a signed first edition copy of that as soon as it is
available! John Kudley had books available for purchase that he brought from the historical society. I had
to have one of each, because I felt like an honorary Auroran! I have quoted two of these books in writing
this article. I hope that you all enjoy!
1. Kudley, John Jr., More Than a Landmark A History of The Church in Aurora 1809-2009. 2010 John J.
Kudley, Jr.
2. Bowman, Carol G., Aurora from the founding to the flood, Volume One 1799-1913. 1999, The Aurora
Historical Society.
3. Aurorahistorical.org